Danger signs when dating
Getting to know someone takes time and a cool head.
If you feel like you're being swept off your feet, take a step back.
There's a certain romantic mystery about it -- what will this new person be like?
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You’ve probably heard everyone from your grandma to Dr.
You he has friends because they make frequent appearances in his social media, but you can't seem to score an invite to one of their secretive hangouts. Don't forget that you, too, could soon find yourself in this category.
Maybe he doesn't want you to meet his boys because he doesn't view your relationship as a long-term thing, or perhaps his friends don't even know you exist because, to them (and whomever else), he's still single. And then there's this: What's the one thing all these “crazy” chicks have in common? He's the common denominator, so either he's grossly misrepresenting these people, or he was incredibly skilled at pushing their buttons. Decisiveness can be difficult, no question about that.
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Sure, it's just little stuff — things that seem unimportant and are pretty easy to explain away if you try hard enough.